There's something special about ladyboys

[Somchai]

Posted with the kind permission of an anonymous board member.

"Ive lived in Thailand for 5 years now and loved Ladyboys for 10 years.

Also, I have a beautiful Thai female wife and I love women.

So why ladyboys?

I often sit outside of a bar with friends and watch the world go by. Up and down the street parade the most beautiful girls imaginable- and of course some ugly ones. But by and large there are few of the ugly variety. And if I was back in the UK and aged 50+ like me, there are few of these even "ugly" girls that I would kick out of bed. Most in truth I would be extremely grateful for. And I’m sitting with a cup of tea or a beer with other guys and watching the girls. 4 pm to dusk is when they are going to work or getting their hair done before going to work and the best time to sit and chill.

And:-

Me and the guys are talking MAN TALK. And its great fun and often very funny. Hey get that one! Where? In the pink! Over there! Wow - rocks my boat! Nah- no tits! But some of us like small tits! Yea, I do etc,etc. And so it goes on and its fun

Until:-

Wow! What? Look at that! Where? Denim skirt! Wow! WOW! Hey NO its a DAVE , a GEOF , its a ladyboy! No its not! Yes it is! Is it really? Yea! Oh shit- I fancied that - Do ye think Im gay!!! Much laughter and then hey look at that!!! And we are off again!

As Ive said already, I like women AND I like ladyboys. How can this be??? As one guy put it to me once - he was into the feminine. And that answered the question for me. I like feminine women and I can accept and enjoy that some of them have dicks as opposed to pussies. Variety being the spice of life! And I remember also that my first sexual encounters were at school with other guys when we were all coping with the strains of adolescence and hormones!

So why is it that so many - but not all - ladyboys can be so feminine? And why can a country have so many? Is it the genes or even tight jeans? After much in depth - and undercover research - a blanket approach via the bed, I’ve learnt that 85% ish of all ladyboys were raised as girls from birth. Mummy wanted a girl but got me and told me that this was a pussy!!!!! Just ask a ladyboy at what age she was first a girl and most will tell you its from their earliest childhood memories. They wont tell you that they got to be 45 years old and realized that they were in the wrong bodies. They remember being dressed in skirts at 2 years of age. Did they go to the shop and buy them? No Mummy did! They were too young to speak!
Recently Ive asked a couple of Toms ( cross dressing lesbians) why they want to be men and have been given the same answer in reverse- Mummy wanted a boy but got me!
So does my interest in women with dicks make me gay or bi - sexual? Well I don’t think so BUT I really don’t care if it does and it more than doubles opportunities. Theres nothing wrong with being Gay or Bi. I just wish many guys had a bit more understanding of why ladyboys are what they are as opposed to taking the piss as they walk by."

[Somchai]

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Somchai

[donnnnnny]

so how come there are so few toms around???

[Somchai]

so how come there are so few toms around???

Really not sure. I think that there are more around than you think. Just as many LBs would pass for girls, I think there are many Toms that pass as guys. One thing to their advantage on this, Thai guys don't have much or any facial hair. Not sure if many/ any Toms take male hormones.They usually have beautiful partners- female- called Dee's- so a couple is a Tom Dee outfit. Theres a tom in Pooks bar on Soi 6. Her Dee is beautiful from a classy agogo on Walking St.

I think that there are a lot more LBs than Toms because Thai mothers know that girls via Pattaya etc have a greater earning potential ie "Hello Ferang".

The sexual habits of Toms are a bit weird as well- but thats another story. :D

Cheers Somchai:)

[FuchsiaPink]

Hmm.. ALL I CAN SAY IS..

Life is too short to be anxious on those things.. DO WHAT U WANNA DO, DONT PAY ATTENTION ON WHAT OTHER PEOPLE WILL SAY, ITS UR LIFE.. U HAVE ALL D RIGHT TO LIVE IT THE WAY U WANNA LIVE IT..

JUST ENJOY THE FACT THAT UR NOT A HYPOCRITE AND UR NOT SHY TO HIDE WHAT U WANT AND WHAT U FEEL, AM SURE OTHER STRAIGHT MEN DO LIKE LADYBOYS TOO BUT THEY ARE JUST TO INSECURE TO ADMIT IT AND SHOW IT..

sorry for the ALL CAPS haha.. just remember we all have our own fantasies but our inhibitions makes us shy to show them, and i think those are the reasons why other people are sad and go depressed because they feel that there is something lacking in their life. It is because there is something in the back of their minds that they wanna do but they cant. simply because they are afraid to.. afraid to be hated by the people around them.

i myself have a passion with ugly men, and my friends keep criticizing me.. But i dont give a damn on whatever they think about me, because its my taste thats where i enjoy.. they have their own life to take care of and they shouldnt be unfair with me.. they should not pass the demarcation line between advising and meddling.. I love life, i LOVE sex.. and i love UGLY men.. hahaha

[Somchai]

I love life, i LOVE sex.. and i love UGLY men.. hahaha

Oh shit FP- me and a lot of guys were going to PI to get it on with you - but we are so effing handsome - maybe you wouldnt like us. :D :D :D

Love Somchai :)

[condor]

Thanks Somchai for posting this subject matter. And thank you Fuchsia Pink for your input as well.

Personally, I have always gone with genuine girls (is that term used here for regular girls?). I love women immensely and it wasn't until recently that I decided to try the ladyboy scene. I am quite enamored with this scene and enjoy it in every aspect. As the anonymous author stated, ladyboys (especially the really feminine ones) are just like regular girls except that they have a cock instead of a pussy. They can be so beautiful and sexy and, at least for me, it is SO EROTIC to know that they have a cock under that mini-skirt. I just LOVE IT !!
The anonymous author stated that it doubles your opportunities. I think it might increase them even further because us ladyboy lovers don't have to worry about our hetero buddies chasing after ladyboy tail.
A funny thing happened to me on one of my recent trips to Thailand. Me and my buddy were being driven from BKK to Pattaya by the pick up service.. The Thai driver was friendly and courteous and we were just having a great time conversing with him. Sensing our enthusiasm I guess, he suddenly blurted out ....."hey do you guys like ladyboys??!!!" I had to exclaim "nah, nah buddy, we love the genuine girls". Deep inside I was screaming "YEAH Mr Taxi driver, let's talk about them - tell me your experiences!" I was amazed at how ladyboys are so accepted in this Thai culture and how wonderful that is.
Although I am very discreet about my affection for ladyboys, it is us guys who are honest with ourselves and are able to admit to ourselves that we are who we are and if we want to go with ladyboys, then we are going to follow our dreams. Life is so too, too short.

[Somchai]

Thanks Condor - Amen to the above.

Regards Somchai

[FuchsiaPink]

somchai and condor : thanks for the warm acknowledgement

re:topic again

i love this topic so much..!!!!

i miss stealthwizard, we are so compatible with our ideas.. i hope he can say something about this topic.. Anyway in my own humble opinion, for a very long time i think we have been a victim of people who set standard on what normal sex should be.. like for example a man should only have sex with a woman. no sex with underage. no sex with family members.. pls dont mistake me as an ANTI-CHRIST.. i am just a human with a high sexual appetite.. u cant stop me to question things.. why do they have to prohibit us on things we want.. SEX is a very pleasurable thing. its for me the best pastime one can have. and it is usually free (with some exceptions haha) (free if u both like it) (hmm not really!!! sometimes a whore likes it but still charges "quit it! fp u have so many ideas").. ISNT IT WONDERFUL IF THERE ARE NO LAWS OR RULES WHEN IT COMES TO SEX??? if i wanna have sex with an adolescent and as long as d adolescent guy likes it. why dont they just allow me. if i find my cousin or nephew or my brother sexy, and if they find me sexy too.. isnt it fun to have group sex with them.. its like playing waterguns without any guilt at all.. i just really wish i can have sex anytime i want it.. this freaking rules are the reason why some people masturbate, its because they put rules on sex.. isnt it nice to call one member of ur family and tell him that u need his hands or mouth so u can cum.. lets admit it SEX is one of the basic needs of a human being.. SEX puts me into a good mood, (unless the guy has a small cock and cums quickly)(and also doesnt wanna fuck my ass)(or cant fuck my ass because he cum in my mouth at once!! here ur ideas go again fp, goshhhh!!!).. so why did they put a rule or law about sex.. why dont they just allow 2 people to have sex whenever they want it.. why dont they treat that urge as a normal call in life like urinating and eating.. why is it a taboo to have sex with a ladyboy.. i myself wanna experience having sex with a lesbo.. (i fantasize being raped by 3 lesbos) anyway maybe there are reasons behind this.. maybe because it is one way to organize us, because if sex dont have rules i am sure everyone of us will be RELATIVES hahahaha..!!! after writing this i now understand why the church in my country condemns artificial birth control methods.. because those methods can alsol be used in premarital sex or any prohibited sex to avoid unwanted pregnancy..

ANYWAY, i feel so happy after i have aired out what i feel.. i really wish that SEX was not what SEX is right now..:rolleyes:

[Somchai]

Wow girl- beautiful stuff - straight from the heart. Thanks FP

Oh and if Im ever in PI and if I am not too handsome, I will find 3 lesbos for you and pay. Can I join in? Why lesbos. Why not just women?:D

Love Somchai :)

[FuchsiaPink]

Why lesbos. Why not just women?:D

Love Somchai :)

no not women.. in my country there are lesbos who look like real guys.. with small tits and short crew cut hair.. very very cute.. but i think they are in the age 16.. so those just remain as fantasies or else i go to jail hahaha:(;):D:cool::eek:

[Somchai]

no not women.. in my country there are lesbos who look like real guys.. with small tits and short crew cut hair.. very very cute.. but i think they are in the age 16.. so those just remain as fantasies or else i go to jail hahaha:(;):D:cool::eek:

OK understand now- kind of young female to male transsexuals. We have them here called Tomboys.

So what would you do with a load of girls FP. Actually, personal question- have you ever had sex with a girl? If so I'll bring my wife on the trip? :D:D:D:D

Love Somchai

[craftman69]

I too have liked females all my life and never even looked at a guy in a sexual way but theres something about a ladyboy.Ive been lusting after them and obsessed for probably 10 years myself.Ladyboys too looks like a female which im attracted too and because of that
someone like myself is willing to except she has a dick.The other thing is many ladyboys look even better the a lot of females because they try so hard to be perfect and be female.
So now after having been married and now divorced i have good news to report that i am actually dating a Ladyboy.She acts everybit like a women and can suck dick and fuck better then any women i ever been with.So thats a good start and a why.

Craftman69


FuchsiaPink
We got a lot of those teen boys around here dressed in tight jeans and dye their hair black
look like gay or feminine and they are called EMO types.

[hugomail]

I think Craftsman explains it just about right for me, ladyboys do try to look perfect and generally are far more atractive than most girls. I do love pussy but I have to be honest, I, like craftsman am willing to except that there is a dick, in fact this site has helped me come to terms with this quite recently and reading all the messages posted makes me feel that there is nothing wrong with the way I feel, in fact there everything right with it. But as you all say... there is something special about ladyboys.