Getting A Ladyboy Girlfriend Overseas

[craftman69]

Hello Im brand new to the forum.
I have I great story to share with you I hope.
Ive been a member of the LadyboyLadyboy website for six years along with just about all the other AsianTs websites out there.I would say Im completely addicted and fascinated with them.So much so I would say my secret addiction and fantacy about ladyboys hurt my marriage to a degree causing me to not be ass attracted to my wife as much anymore sexually but anyways it ended regardless and that wasnt it she cheated and left before I ever would think of it.

In 2008 I said now that my wife has been gone for months Im going to start the year out new and quest for what I desire.I want to be with a Ladyboy however that may be.Go to Thailand for a week whatever.So I said first maybe I should just pop my head in a local TS club or cakll an escort just to dip in the water a little.I went to a Club on Sunset in La and it was on.I saw gorgeous shemales and Ladyboys.I got turned on big time and said thats it im doing it.

Ok so i signed up for find a shemale lover dating site just to see who would be interested in me and I watched the flirts and messages come in.Three days after I signed up I get this innocent absolutley stunning gorgeous hot and sexy Philippino ladyboy message saying she likes me and wants to talk.Here I am in LA.So its been almost two months now and we talk 2hrs a day and exchange pictures everyday.She wants to come here and be with me and have a life together.Im absolutley just blown away.This is unreal I say to myself.She is as cute as the cuteset on the website.Picture Aum the thin one with braces and the blond hair but Darker hair.Totally female passable.She says shes on the best pills and only had braest implants.I showed my friends pictures of her sayings she a girl.Little dio they know.Anyways Im sponsering her to come here to the USA.She getting here Visa granted this week.She just finished medical school and wants to settle down.She Religious and a virgin so she says?We are booking the flight next week.Im about to shell out $950 for the flight so Im asking for advice.Is this common.Does this really happen.Do Asian ladyboys really want to hook up with Western Guys to have as boyfriends and live together or is this a scam? If she makes it to the USA.i will feel like the luckiest man on the planet.I just get mixed opinions about overseas dating.It seams for real.We are in love with each other.I made her get a camera so i know who Im talking too for my own sake.Anyways Im glad to dip into the forum and would love to hear some strories and words.Ive never been with a ladyboy before.Is it going to be once youve had youll never go back?

[Somchai]

Hi Craftman 69 and welcome to the board. Thanks for posting. What you say is very interesting though I have a few concerns about your situation.:eek:

Firstly, you are about to engage in a relationship with a person from another culture. Generally speaking, in the long term this is very difficult. Most cross cultural relationships fail fairly quickly. Yours maybe different as some - maybe 10%- do succeed. :confused:

You are attracted to ladyboys but you dont seem to have explored all the dimensions of your particular attractions. Most guys I know that are into LBs are extremely promiscuous. That is they love ladyboys- ALL of them- and try to bed ALL of them. That doesnt fit too neatly with a one on one relationship. :)

What your particular LBs views are regarding relationships with a Western guy will be hers alone aswell as arising from her culture, which I have said is very differerent from the Wests.

Overall, I would strongly advise you to play the field first - in Asia - where its cheap. Get the love/ lust thing properly fed or satiated and then take a second look at what you want and what is important to you.

There are worst things than living alone and saving money to get here 3 or 4 times a year. :D

Keep us all posted on what you do and what happens. Im sure we all hope it will work out for you.

Regards Somchai

[Frank]

Tell me you bought the ticket in her name, not just sent her the cash. As far as the virgin thing goes, if she lives in the provinces in Pi then she might be what we call a "virgin". Meaning she has never been with a foreigner.

Hell yes Ladyboys from the Philippines would love to come to the US to live. They live a pretty hard life there. It is not accepted in society because of the catholic upbringing. They speak the language. LA has many Filipino people living there. The best thing I can tell you is take it slow. You don't have same sex marriage there so that is good because it makes you less impulsive.

She will expect alot from you though. If she is from a poor family then you might have to send home money to help them. Does she have an education? If not then her prospects of work when the time comes will be limited.

If it works get a lawyer and get a domestic partner (paternity) pre-nuptial agreement. If you are a doctor or will be one soon protect your self.

Good luck and I know it sounds cynical but approach this whole relationship in the beginning with a bit of skepticism or as my good friend Seanchai says. "Expect the worst and hope for the best."

With all this said please keep up posted and good luck.

Frank

[craftman69]

Frank and Somchai
Yes Ive had all those random thaughts.Ive never been the permiscuous type.Im a one women kind of guy.Im glad to be hear in the forum for the first time and to get some good insight.What the hell heres a picture of my ladyboy girlfriend.Sure looks like shes a model doesnt she? Your looking at my future bride to be however that would work.Is she labeled male female or both when shes here in the USA.She got a 2 year visa granted yesterday.Heres another questions is there a differance at all or if any beteewn Thai and Philippino Ladyboys? Anyways Thanks you guys and I love the website once again.Cant say enough.

[Somchai]

Hi Craftman,

She looks lovely. :)

Frank is in a better position to answer your questions. He is an American and Im not. :p

Also he visits PI and Thailand whereas I stay mostly in Thailand.

Maybe FuchiaPink can give you some advise. Got any thoughts FuchiaPink?

Regards Somchai :)

[FuchsiaPink]

Oh my God, will someone pls contact that guy, he is in deep trouble, huhuhu!!!

[FuchsiaPink]

Ok listen,

Living in a third world country, like Philippines, it is very hard for us to be granted a U.S. visa.. It is not enough being RICH to be granted a U.S. visa.. u need more than being RICH.. trust me some professionals, and some wealthy people are being turned down and not granted a U.S. visa.. pls search google about it..

anyway to have a U.S. visa u must have at least these things.. take note AT LEAST:

1. must have land titles
2. a big sum of money in d bank (this is very very important) not just 80,000pesos but around 300,000pesos up. "if she soever claims that he has a large money on d bank, then why would she not shoulder her own ticket"
3. u must have travelled to other countries already, and have ur passport stamped.
4. age like 19 - 40 are most likely denied, specially if u are single. because they suspect that u wont be coming back.
5. u must have a VERY GOOD JOB for a LONG PERIOD of time, not recently graduated

pls listen to me, new comers on datesites are often times baptized by scammers, PLS DONT LET YOURSELF undergo that.

U.S. embassy is strict on giving VISAS maybe because they avoid people who overstays, and avoid suspicious people entering the country.. well i am very concerned with your welfare, well if you happen to be a lil stubborn and want to take the risk, the best way for u to do is NOT TO SEND HER MONEY, but buy her a ticket in e-ticket.com wherein u can always refund ur money if she eventually is lying.


*** it is hard for me to believe that a ladyboy at that age is VIRGIN, i know my country and i know how ladyboys behave here. if u wanna have a ladyboy wife the best way for u to do is to visit here, and educate urself on how things work here. i hope u wont get mad at me, but i am really trying to help u. since like you, i also have found a new family in this forum.***:)

[craftman69]

FUCHIAPINK

Thanks for the honest advice.I hear you and I have the skepticism in the my head I pursue this too knowing there is scams so im trying to not be a sucker and nieve.Thats why Im also doing a little research here.I told her to take a picture or email me a copy of the visa.
But i dont want to come off as I dont trust her at all.Thats why im trying to be suttle buy just asking for pictures or video.She send me a dozen photos for me on Valentines day holding a sign she made just for me and sent me an ecard.Shes been working real hard to get that Visa.Going to the Embassey almost every othr day dealing with the recruiter and I know its tough because she tells me all the hoops she is going thru.She did a NBI clearance,took medical test,took photos,got passport,show residennce,yes she had to show money in visa account which was about $2000 she has.She is college educted 25 in the medical field.
I am nervous because her job was not pay much helping her aunt in a store for now.
She said the medical test was $400,aplly for visa was $100,passport was $100 she flew to Manila and is staying there with a cousin now till she gets here and because she is away from where she was living she goes to internet cafe where we chat for 2hrs everyday on yahoo messenger.She tell the embassey shes coming here to work and Im hiring her.
Yes i was a little genereous upfront and told her I cant come there because i run a business here but I will buy you a ticket to come visit the USA.im a generous guy.The plan ticket runs around $940-$1199 Northwest she sent me the link of flights to pick.Do you need the visa to buy the ticket?
I hope its true though.Im crossing my fingers

[FuchsiaPink]

craftman69 pls read my post here:

5. u must have a VERY GOOD JOB for a LONG PERIOD of time, not recently graduated

pls believe me, i dont want u to be scammed. do you have a yahoo? we can chat so i can advise u better, here is my id sweet26shemale

[FuchsiaPink]

the U.S. embassy wont grant her tourist visa if she is going there to work, She has to tour and not work, she should guarantee that she will go back to Philippines and not overstay there. Visa is really needed to buy a ticket, and it is very very impossible for her to have one eventhough she claims she has one. Pls listen to me, i am trying to save you.

[Somchai]

"She just finished medical school and wants to settle down." :(

Aren't most people who finish medical school doctors? And dont most of them want to work in their profession. And maybe pay back debts. :(

"I am nervous because her job was not pay much helping her aunt in a store for now." :confused:

Thought she was ex - medical school- why work in the family store? :)

"She is college educted 25 in the medical field.":rolleyes:

Now not a doctor- in the medical field? A nurse perhaps? If so the above applies.:confused:

If not a nurse- what- hospital cleaner? :confused:

I, now too, smell a scam. :eek:

Please be careful and listen to FP.

Regards Somchai

[craftman69]

the U.S. embassy wont grant her tourist visa if she is going there to work, She has to tour and not work, she should guarantee that she will go back to Philippines and not overstay there. Visa is really needed to buy a ticket, and it is very very impossible for her to have one eventhough she claims she has one. Pls listen to me, i am trying to save you.

Fushiapink
I will take what you have said and I will slip in few questions when I talk to her tonight.
She applied for a work Visa not tourist Visa.Is there a way to trace where she is talking
to me from on internet? I will be able to tell where she is and if shes lying to me.I hate to be mistrustfull but I trust has to be earned.I will ask her the name of internet cafe and maybe youve heard of it and if your in the area or is close to you you can do a little spy operation for me.He He He He.We meet like clockwork at the same time everyday after I get off work.She pays for internet at this place buy the hour.I will right down your yahoo so I can communicate with you in the future.I chat there with her.So I should see the visa before we get ticket is a good idea.She said it was granted on Monday and will receive in mail.Is that true? Lots of things tell me its not a scam but I do question some things.If it is shes really good because she is just head over heals about me.Sending me lenghty love letter emails opening her heart and engaing in very intimante conversations.She is very curious about here asking me to take photos and video of my place and surroundings.
Yes she has not been in a serious relationship yet because she was going to school.She is very shy and religious also so she says and goes to church everyweek.Is that to throw me off like shes a good girl?She told me her father died when she was young so doesnt have much family.Very sweet girl I hope its not a bunch of lies.She doesnt seem to be worried about how much money I have or make.Im going to try and pinpoint where she is.
I did send her a small amount of money western union a couple weeks ago and she didnt split? Hope that wasnt a mistake.Im sure there is a record where the money was received
If things went badd.Take to you all later.

Artist69

[FuchsiaPink]

well baby, to free your mind from worries and anxiety.. this is my best SUGGESTION for you to do:

*** GO TO www.eticket.com -->> YOU CAN PERSONALLY BUY A TICKET FOR HER ON THAT SITE.. so if she does not come, YOU WILL HAVE THE CHANCE TO REFUND YOUR MONEY, thru this way you dont have to risk a 950$ for a ticket.

*** if she is not in favor of this eticket, then it only means one thing, she wants u to send d money because she wants d money not the TICKET. ;)

HOPE ITS OK NOW.. :)

[craftman69]

Fushiapink
You are a real help and a sweetheart.Im looking at flights and tickets.So if I buy the ticket
online she just shows up and pics up the ticket when she presents her ID. I havent done any of this stuff and want nothing to go wrong.I can buy the ticket here in the Usa for her and I dont need her Visa or address? Just put her name in and just give her the confirmation # I take it.I will ask her If this is ok.I will tell her it cost lots of money to western union how about I just pay for the ticket.

[FuchsiaPink]

yes, dont worry the customer service assitant of eticket.com will surely assist u on the procedures. ask them if u need her visa or address, or what u need to do. They will help u. :)

[Koykaeng]

Hi Craftman69,

I'm totally amazed by your post, and can't believe how anyone can be so trusting. :confused:

Enjoying a few ladyboy websites and flirting on webcam is one thing, but attempting to fly someone over to the USA is another.

When you consider you are yet to even have any kind of physical interaction with a ladyboy, the whole episode becomes hard to believe.

Think things through carefully and get yourself educated quickly before it all ends in a big mess. :eek:

Cheers
Koykaeng

[connetto]

Frank and Somchai
Yes Ive had all those random thaughts.Ive never been the permiscuous type.Im a one women kind of guy.Im glad to be hear in the forum for the first time and to get some good insight.What the hell heres a picture of my ladyboy girlfriend.Sure looks like shes a model doesnt she? Your looking at my future bride to be however that would work.Is she labeled male female or both when shes here in the USA.She got a 2 year visa granted yesterday.Heres another questions is there a differance at all or if any beteewn Thai and Philippino Ladyboys? Anyways Thanks you guys and I love the website once again.Cant say enough.

http://a433.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/42/l_22d6f64d0a245abb8440a19472096640.jpg



I love you ladyboy! ;)

[Frank]

Have you sent her money for the passport or health check?

I can't the health costing that much. I know the PBI clearance costs about 1000ph because I insist on all of models having one.

As far as passport cost goes $100 US seams a bit much. The visa for the US is $140 to $150 it just went up.

Please check everything and ask for receipts.

AS far as checking where she is calling from you need an IP address. If it is in your emails you can trace it here is some info on that.

http://www.abika.com/help/IPaddressmap.htm

[craftman69]

Frank

Thanks for the link.Thats pretty interesting.They charge some hefty fees.
Yeah I told her I want to see the visa and passport before I buy the ticket.
She didnt split on me.I asked her where she was eating at and she said
carenderia herwe if anyones herd of that? yeah she went for an interview at first
then she reported back to me all depressed about everything they wanted.So she took the medical exame,background check,passport,took 2x2 photos,showed she had some money in an account.They told her that she has to have money for herself and not rely on me so shes not a beggar.She said that some of the people that work at the US embassey are Philippino and she is dealing with a lady recruiter.Im just shocked at all the hopes they make one go throw to leave the country.The Usa is a very open society and we welcome people to come visit us from all countrys.Why does it cost so much money to just come visit here or get a visa when if i want to travel there or anywhere I just get a passport for $100.If someone wants to travel here they should just make sure there not a terrorist or have ties or links to them and thats about it.If things go bad I might do a trace but at the same time Im willing to trust a liitle and take a little gamble.Hell $950 bucks can be lost in vegas at the roll of a dice so I got a 50/50 chance she shows up at the airport when I go to pick her up.I will check trust me.I call the airlines if I have to to see if shes on that flight i book.Its just I get more people saying scam then its for real so Im keeping my gaurd up.I just got done yahoo messaging with her.Whats a good airlines and reliable and somewhat comfortable from manila to LA .1 stop. She says NWA.Does that sound about right?

[FuchsiaPink]

Have you sent her money for the passport or health check?

I can't the health costing that much. I know the PBI clearance costs about 1000ph because I insist on all of models having one.

As far as passport cost goes $100 US seams a bit much. The visa for the US is $140 to $150 it just went up.

Please check everything and ask for receipts.

AS far as checking where she is calling from you need an IP address. If it is in your emails you can trace it here is some info on that.

http://www.abika.com/help/IPaddressmap.htm



yes nbi clearance is around 100pesos.. then medical examination is aound 4,000pesos which is 100$. Anyway let us let craftman69 do what he wants, its better he tried it.. to know the result than not trying and left him wondering what the result would be..

[Johanns]

Watch out! make sure the ticket cannot be cashed on the other side!...I have been burned by the sweetest shemale in the world...I thought...hahaha...Good luck

[craftman69]

Im willing to give it a try.Live and learn situation.Either way the communication back and forth with her everyday for almost 2 months now has really helped me move on from hanging
on to my ex that left 5 months ago.Im hoping and crossing my fingers this woks out
and I dont get burned.Maybe just maybe its for real and I might be a sucess story.
Like Fushiapink said what if? It might be a good one and I pull the plug.So Id rather give it a shot rather then think what if?
She has been doing everything I ask her to do to prove herself.She gave me her address
phone number and everything where she was living before she flew to Manila to get interviewed and apply for Visa.Shes originally from Dipolog .Ive only sent her about $380
total so far over 2 months.$200 in Dipolog and $160 in Manila because I wanted to buy a cheap digital camera for her so whenever or whatever I ask she can take a picture.
I did whatever I had to do to prove I was for real to her and she must do the same in return.
I told her theres a million dollar industry out their and Im hip to the hole scam thing and I told her all my friends cautioned me too.So Im not diving in head first.Im reserving most of my heart and feeling with gaurd up until she gets here.I feel like she is head over heels about me ,in love and got her wrapped around my fingers.
A lots going to happen in the next couple weeks and this will all play out in a good way
or a heartbreak.
If not then I need to work on getting my passport so I can maybe visit Thailand or something or just stick to dating Americans girls in my neighborhood and never live out my fantacy.

[Frank]

I know it is cynical but I have rules of Asia any time I take my friends there. And 1 rule is no falling in love because it will end badly.

I have also learned that everyone ignores my warning and does it. So far only 1 out of 10 relationships have worked.

I am sorry FuchsiaPink for saying this, I have been ripped off more or attempted to be ripped off more in the Philippines than any other place in Asia. Please be careful.

I really hope it works out, because you seem kind and have a promising future,

Frank

[craftman69]

I know it is cynical but I have rules of Asia any time I take my friends there. And 1 rule is no falling in love because it will end badly.

I have also learned that everyone ignores my warning and does it. So far only 1 out of 10 relationships have worked.

I am sorry FuchsiaPink for saying this, I have been ripped off more or attempted to be ripped off more in the Philippines than any other place in Asia. Please be careful.

I really hope it works out, because you seem kind and have a promising future,

Frank

I take all the warning seriously and they dont go unnoticed.It helps me decifer things and try to see if shes pulling a fast one on me buy just doing a little investigative work.You wouldnt hire someone without knowing some history and facts same with a relationship.
The question is, she is the one thats been going down the I love you and falling in love way ahead of me while Ive been more reserved or is that the trick?They pretend they have fallen in love with you.Every other word out of her mouth is I love you ,Im so excited,we will be together soon and your in my life.I cant fall today in love with someone Ive never seen in person,touched or kissed.That happens over time.The problem is ive been kind all my life and all its gotten me is heartbreak with Real Girls.I emailed her today discussing
some of these issues and i specifically said I just cant buy a ticket until you show me your passport and visa have arrived and in your hands.I just dont want to cause a fight and blow it because you have to walk a fine line.Im a little more willing to be trusting because I didnt trust my wife and it was part of the nail in the coffen in my marriage.So if the person your trying to have a relationship feels you dont trust them they might say screw off.I dont want a ladyboy escort thats been with everyguy in town.I want a ladyboy girlfriend so Im going to roll the dice a little.The shemale escorts charge $200-500 an hr in LA.The hell with that.If I can have a ladyboy girlfriend come here for $1000 and spend everynight with me thats beyond awesome.It would probably cost me $2000 to go to Thailand for a week and get laid a couple times.So its a toss up.You would not know this is a ladyboy from what I can see unless she revealed it and thats what I really like.Looks just like a women with a suprise and the mentallity an hormones of a guy.Do most ladyboys sound and talk like females when they take female hormones or does there voice give it away?
Well I hope I didnt stir up a hornets nest with all the questions I asked her and my concerns in my email I sent her.I will get you updated on the sitch!

Craftman69

[FuchsiaPink]

I know it is cynical but I have rules of Asia any time I take my friends there. And 1 rule is no falling in love because it will end badly.

I have also learned that everyone ignores my warning and does it. So far only 1 out of 10 relationships have worked.

I am sorry FuchsiaPink for saying this, I have been ripped off more or attempted to be ripped off more in the Philippines than any other place in Asia. Please be careful.

I really hope it works out, because you seem kind and have a promising future,

Frank

Yes, what frank said was true.. VERY VERY TRUE.. :( and to think FRANK is a very handsome man :rolleyes: but still he has experienced this. But dont worry i know of some who are really serious, and who are not professional.. and i can bet my reputation on it. Frank , maybe it is just that u keep meeting the wrong shemales or maybe u have met the right one already but thought she is the wrong one.. hehehe i am so hopeless romantic hahahaha..

re:craftman's love affair >> another one advice from my friends, they told me that to apply work visa using ur medical background, u should have an EMPLOYER, that will be the one who is HIRING YOU FORMALLY, DID U EVER SENT HER A LETTER THAT U ARE HIRING HER? well anyway give her a try, IF U LOSE A 1000$ then LBLBFORUM FAMILY is still here for you.

[craftman69]

Yes, what frank said was true.. VERY VERY TRUE.. :( and to think FRANK is a very handsome man :rolleyes: but still he has experienced this. But dont worry i know of some who are really serious, and who are not professional.. and i can bet my reputation on it. Frank , maybe it is just that u keep meeting the wrong shemales or maybe u have met the right one already but thought she is the wrong one.. hehehe i am so hopeless romantic hahahaha..

re:craftman's love affair >> another one advice from my friends, they told me that to apply work visa using ur medical background, u should have an EMPLOYER, that will be the one who is HIRING YOU FORMALLY, DID U EVER SENT HER A LETTER THAT U ARE HIRING HER? well anyway give her a try, IF U LOSE A 1000$ then LBLBFORUM FAMILY is still here for you.


FuchsiaPink
You are and angel.HeHeHe.Im glad to have you as a family.Forums are good place to meet friends and get through tuff times as well as great stories and advice.You guys seem great and Im glad to be here.
Well if it dont work out I will have to do some traveling to where the Ladyboys are at.
Im a young I would say handsome guy 38 Italian American so If it dont pan out I can always try again and pick myself up and I'll meet someone.IIm a little shy thats been my downfall.m looking for true love and with a ladyboy would be really cool.Shes talking marriage,going to chuch every Sunday,doing all my chores for me and adopting kids and the whole deal.All of which I want in the future.Does this Forum have Private message like other forums ?

[FuchsiaPink]

yes there is a private message, now i know why u didnt reply to my pvt messages haha.. u can send and check pvt messages by clicking private messafes in the UPPER RIGHT PART..


this it how it reads Welcome, craftman69. Private Messages: Unread **, Total ** ....>>> it is located right under LOG OUT


anyway, if that fails u should plan a trip, i hope here in my country so i can tour you and you know ur in good arms with me :) i know alot of shemales who looks like ur loved one

[Craig]

In this entire post no one seems to have addressed the issue of acutally having sex with this ladyboy. From the sounds of it you have never experienced a ladyboy,shemale etc.
How do you know that you truly are attracted to someone with a penis other than you have been turned on by some pictures? Fantasies can be pretty powerful.

Sexually I truly think you should go with some ladyboys to see if it is actually your main thing. I know my first experience with a shemale was not anything like I hoped or expected and I had never had any experience with men at all. After meeting hundreds of tgirls I still question my full attraction to them compared to women.

Just take a run up to Toronto and you could sample loads of hot filipino ladyboys that are easily as attractive as your girl there. There is many advertising on my site.
http://www.shemalecanada.com/escort/
And I would also say that none of the ones that actually live here would ever have a relationship with a guy like me (not unlike you). They all really want the young hot studs, just like any young girl, older guys are just there for $$$$.

If you want to see an exceptional number of Filipino ladyboys looking for men,
check this site out and Search the Ads. If you go back far enough you will see ads that are acutally just warnings to other men to watch out for these rip off artists from the Phillipines.
http://www.tgpersonals.com/

Another note, in my experience almost every Filipino I have met in Canada has a University Degree or Diploma. They tell me almost all Filipinos go through some type of program, so finding a well educated ladyboy from Phillipines is not unusal.

[craftman69]

Craig

Thanks
All I can say is wow.great website.Hundreds of Philippino girls.I searched through all of them to make sure my lady wasnt on there.LOL I was chatting with her just a few minutes ago.
Weve been talking every single day for 2hrs at least for almost two months.Do the scammers devote that much time? Im ready to try being with a ladyboy.im serious this has been a six year thing.I look at ladyboy porn everysingle day and watch ladyboy adult movies.I have a collection of probably 40,000 ladyboy pics saved to disks for my own jackoff enjoyment.Im beyond turned on ,I dont even look at regular girls anymore on the internet. I enjoy females yes of course but Im sure I will like it being with a ladyboy.They frikken turn me on big time.Im on a mission.if this doesnt work out I will spend a week in Thailand but id rather find a regular partner not a stripper or escort.If shes a handlefull or nightmare shes going to have a one way ticket back.I went to a club and watched them dance and get really up close and personal.Ive baught some sex toys to try a little experimenting with also.Im so sick and tired of getting my heart dragged thru the meat grinder and hurt with women.Im done for now.Taking a break from women.If i dont like it or its akward then thats something I will have to feel or find out but if shes very femanine,has a good heart,and passable it might work out.I found her on Findashemalelover.com

See Ya and Thanks
Chris

[Somchai]

Hi Craftsman

It seems that you have a real obsession for this girl or the idea of this girl, and nothing can be said to disuade you. In that case, obsessions just have to be persued to the end, whatever that might be. I think our only concern on the board is that you might get hurt. However, I think you must be aware of that yourself and somewhere inside you are prepared for it.

So what I say to you now is go for it 100% and see what transpires.:D

So what is the current situation regarding visas and air tickets? How soon will she be able to get the visa and get to the US. If she cannot go quickly, can you get to PI and see her?I really think that you must meet her in the flesh asap and get a real romance started as opposed to a fantasy (ie only in your head)
Let us know where you are at now and what your plans you now have to be together.

Cheers Somchai

[craftman69]

Somchai

I looked into possibly going to PI to hang with her for a week a few weeks ago while shes waiting for visa
but when I went to get a passport at the post office here they said it takes 6 weeks.
Im prepare to get hurt from the start and not dive in head first.i just got off of a long relationship and hurt buy my wife who I thaught would never hurt me so I will ride this and enjoy it as long as I can.Because its my first Ladyboy im very curious and willing to give it a try.Ive played it out and visulaised it in my head many times over.Sounds like from what Im hearing most act a certain way and not good idea for a girlfriend or long term relationship.Theres always exceptions.Once she gets here and staying with me what is she going to do.She cant just leave.She cant drive.Shes going to be attached and rely on me.Im the only person she knows here and Im taking care of her.My ex was a nightmare and always going out without me and like being out with her friends more then me in the end and now I will have a stay at home home person that said she will clean my place,laundry and do all my chores while Im at work along with hiring her to help with my business until she gets a job at a hospitol.My ex wouldnt lift a finger.That sounds pretty good to me..So I will have fun for a while.Better then jacken off alone evernight.LOL..We got plans to tour LA,Vegas,San Fransisco Disneyland,Hollywood,Universal.She likes to sing and dance so we are going to have a blast because I karoke freequent and going to take her to do that too along with doing some golf ,hiking,bowling,movies , billiard,shopping and watch my band play.So we are both pretty excited.For me many months or longer with a Ladyboy will be a lot better then a one night stand.Yes im into her big time.As far as the Visa process she will have in the Mail in 4-5 days.Shes going to scan into computer her visa and passport and show me so I can see with my own eyes in case I dont believe her.So i will report back on this in a few days.I noticed in Craigs Ts dating site there were hundreds of PI LBs looking for guys.

Thanks Again
so we will see what happens.

[steve123]

hi all im new to sight but im listing to this and i see my self i have not fallen for it i have one sted fast rull i will not send money i have sent gifts to my friend i have been to thailand and pi ex navy have seen the scams and have worked in goverment so friend take addvice from us go visit met her spend some time and see it would be a heck of alot less finachel hurtfull and hart-brack good luck and agen hope for the best but expect the worse

[Somchai]

Steve 123 - good to see you here. Welcome,

Somchai

[FuchsiaPink]

craftman, pls just be aware that there r people here in p.i. who can fake a visa and a pasport.. BUT U CAN ALWAYS CONFIRM THEM IN US EMBASSY.. i can tell if the pasport or visa is fake in one look, just show it to me..

[Craig]

Weve been talking every single day for 2hrs at least for almost two months.Do the scammers devote that much time?



If a scammer is doing this for a living they may spend 8 hours a day at it.

[taneishablack]

sorry craftsan but thats 100% BS....be careful i hope your taking alll the advice they are telling you. 100$ for a phil passport? haha

[craftman69]

Well Im crossing my fingers.Your either going to see a picture of us together soon here in Los Angeles or a report off the bad news in which you guys advice were all right and true and will have a told you so momment.Its a nail bitter let me tell you and im nerveous as hell.

[Somchai]

Hey man - we all wish you good luck and hope it turns out the way you wanted.

Keep us posted-

Somchai

[dedalus]

So . . . What the %$#! happened!?!

[ozzie]

So . . . What the %$#! happened!?!

Hope it did not all end in tears :eek::rolleyes:

[stogie]

This is gonna end in tears...

[khun.bkk]

This is gonna end in tears...

Stogie,
You left out "buckets of tears"! Craftman is in deep do-do for sure, I hope he listens to a few of the posts and hauls his ass back to the USA. Hell it's Independence Day and I hope he keeps his. Shock :eek::eek::(:(

[entrox]

can be possible